we are soooooo much in the same place on the same page. Right when I am ready to give up she switches back to someone I once knew. And those feelings about the OM are NORMAL. I know it is something that we will need to get over but we can not deny we have them. I wish there was some way that our wives could understand it is a male Pride thing. It may be stupid but that is what it is. Not to be crude but it's like the male dog that pee's on things to mark HIS territory. Our territory has been marked by some M.F.O.M I agree with Pup. Yes we do need to make a stand but just look how far we have gotten without it. I am not sure about your sitch but I know if I were to have made a stand a year ago I would be divorced by now. You have been out of the loop on my sitch but last week I made a small attempt to make that stand. There were some tense moments and she did pull back a little but she is still here and things are back to "normal" in a good way. I have been thinking that maybe waiting for them to make this "decision" may not be the right thing. I am going to start having more body contact myself.(I don't mean with myself) what I mean is that I am going to just frame my mind into thinking that we just started going out. I am going to just make my moves like I would if we were just "dating" and kind of make a joke of it as we go along. My wife is still sleeping in "her office" after a couple of margaritas and a little hanky panky I might say something about maybe we should go back to "her place"... PS be careful at work you don’t want to me like me and only have one week of work left then unemployment
Take care buddy..
Doc
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
