Don't know if you ever check these boards anymore as it's been awhile, but I just got back to this one of yours and it seems to be the last one you posted. I was SORRY to see that your w was sick but I hope it ended up "clarifying" things that lead to her getting the help she needed and that you and your family are well and at peace.
And I hope you are happy. j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016