i see u live in ny...on what grounds did he file for divorce and how is it going through so quickly?

i live in ny too, u can see my thread under infidelity...

if u want to work things out and save your marriage, there must be a way for u to slow down your divorce, seems way too quick, especially for ny.

me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09