I want to do that. But, everyone has told me to NOT bring up the R talk with him........to let him bring up the topic and then talk. I am not sure I can make it. That's the problem. I have not seen him and barely spoken to him in the last 6 weeks. Now everything is supposed to be like "we are friends"........Its just too much. I just feel like sobbing and sobbing and this is just too painful..........
Why should I prolong my misery? Let face it he is holding all the cards here. I am holding the card with my name on and I can control I will repond to what he is throwing my way....but, really other than that...he is holding the cards.
My sitch in a nutshell is that H and I have been living separately for 6 months now. He left for a job. Three months ago things got to the point where he stopped communicating. I thought he needed space and so I gave it to him. 2 months ago he tells me over the phone that he is thinking about a divorce. I had a graduate level exam in 2 weeks and he said he would come after that and spend a week or more with me to figure things out. He came 2 weeks later, with D papers in hand. He left in 3 hours and the D will go thru early August. This is the first I am seeing or talking to him since that day 6 weeks ago.
Thanks for the reply....I am feeling so lost right now. I needed an objective voice!
