Who is this stranger living in my house?

[saffie]

If it were me I would out the A. Is it widely known about at work?

If he is her boss hten he has abused his position in having an A with her and I would think that was a dismissible offence.

My H had an 18 month A with one of his staff. He is the CEO of a Co. Unfortunately all his staff knew about the A, and although not happy about it had covered for him. However, the directors if the Co. seemed not to know and so I made it VERY clear that I would inform them of what had happened if they did not stop immediately.

I also outed his behaviour to all our family and friends.

There were other issues involved which are too complex to go into at this juncture, but vasically we manaegd to get things back ion track pretty quickly, although it has taken me a long time yo get over the betrayal.

However, our M seems stronger than ever and in two years we will be celebarting our silver wedding anniversary. We communicate better than ever and we are much kinder to one another.

Once I knew of the A I would not countenance 'cake eating' and I made my H make a choice.

Do you have children? What are your ages?