ok, my parents are going to make me crazy, crazier than i already am...
there is a reason i did not tell them for so very long what was going on, because i did not want to deal with this!
its one thing when i have what to say about h, its another to hear it from someone else, let alone my parents. and i have to say, i havent even badmouthed him to my parents. ever.
met my dad for lunch today, he was busy creating theories about how h must be working and not telling us and how my father will figure it out etc. i was like, he isnt that conniving. so my dad was like, oh yeah right...etc.
i took my son to pick out a father's day gift. i used a gift card i had to a dept store, it didnt cost me anything. i feel it is important to teach my son the way to treat people, he deserves to get his father a gift.
so my dad was like, oh, that is kind of u. i was like, its his father, son deserves to be taught how to treat people.
dont get me wrong - my parents mean well, they are the best parents there are. but them putting h down doesnt help me.
my mother is also busy getting angry at h and expressing it to me. doesnt help me. makes me not want to talk to them.
i called to ask her a question about a job i was looking at, im just starting to dust off my resume and look at potential jobs for the fall.
my mother goes into a whole thing about how i should go back to school, be a teacher, choose a career etc.
i was like, i dont want to be a teacher, i dont want to go back to school....then i said, please, one day at a time!
sorry for the long post, just venting.
on a positive note, i finally sold my son's train table! so excited that i listed it online and sold it! im going to see what else i can sell. i explained to my son that we can sell what he doesnt use and buy him new furniture. he was happy with that.
Last edited by mdoodles; 06/20/0909:13 PM.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09