Great job keeping your cool with your husband. Our spouses will try to get our attention in any way. Dragging you into an argument or breaking news is an attention-getter. You did great by not falling for it. My W does the same with me as well off and on over the phone. But I learned to not react to any attention-getter. It took me a few months to get it right, but I think I am doing better now. And you did great!
Hang in there,
JR09
Me:44 WAW:43 Children S13,S11,S7 Married 17 yrs W left JUN 08 W filed JAN 09 D proceedings dismissed AUG 09 W refiles 1 MAR 11