Your DB coach sounds like a good one. I know this anniversary hurts but you are thinking the right way and it will make you strong instead of giving in to depression like so many would do.
I really hope your coach it right and that you will stay away from your W enough that she will grow weary of her twin and miss her H. I pray that works. I do believe it is the best route to take and you stay busy GAL. You are doing a good job of that today! When holidays and other special events are coming up.....be sure to fill your calendar so you will not be sitting alone.
I'll check back later, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!