Newbie - first post and ?s

[Serenity13]

I agree with Gardener...Mine does the same crap..I won't rise to the bait and he will follow me around the house or seek me out to repeat what he stated...You need to learn to say the following: (I just learned myself)

"I am sorry you feel that way"

That is how I try to start any answer I give hubby now...After bailing on us for 10 days so he could get his dipstick checked, I had a lot of time to read and that is how you validate what he is saying without being drawn into the game.