Ash, Does he know you're posting and that you are Ashlee (if that's not your real name)? If so, you may want to change your username and start a new thread/thread name (we'll find you).

I would hide the book, for sure. H is ex-military and you're giving him access to your strategic plan? shocked

MLC? You know it. He (probably) knows it. And if he doesn't, you are wasting valuable energy that should be spent on working on you trying to convince him or "prove" it.

Closing a laptop and lying down in bed. Is that a positive step? All I would know for sure is that it's closing a laptop and lying down in bed.

Keep reading. Read, read, read, girl smile

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac