Thanks snodderly, I am always so grateful for your wisdom and experience. My health is certainly worrying me now. They are doing further tests but nothing is conclusive as yet so it's frustrating as the pain is bad. I know the truth in what you are saying, we are both on our journeys.I am wanting my health and happiness and my little girl. I am staying strong, the backbone thing is true as is the adult thing. I can't control what he does, only myself. Will write more later, doc is here I x
