Newbie - first post and ?s

[Gardener]

I told H to tell OW to get on here if she wants to save her marriage. I'm sure he hasn't as I believe in his mind's eye, he sees them 'together' one day. OW is on facebook and I could send her a message, letting her know about this website and the books etc... But that's a bad idea, right?

Whoa, Ashlee. I'm no expert, but I think that's a terrible idea.

1) I'm reading this as you told H about DB? So he knows about it and that you're on here and he can see what you're saying/planning and the sage advice you're being given?

2) You're pondering giving the same access to OW?

Knowledge is power. Keep Db to yourself/for yourself.

my $.02