No none of that sounds awful. I know that if this works out it will take time. A lot of people would probably say give up after all this happening after one year of marriage but I have to give the sitch's uniqueness the benefit of the doubt.
Anyway, on Friday I got the most of the rest of my stuff except for one item (a grill which is outside of their apt anyway). We haven't spoken since the last Tues I came over. Today is our 1st year wedding anniversery and it is very full today. Looks like I will be working out before work, after work will be father's day dinner, then after that a friend invited me to a surprise b-day party. My db coach said I should at least send an email to my wife saying I will be thinking about you today. That's it. If my wife calls to want to see me that is fine. If not it looks like my day is pretty well set out. Not to say I won't be upset today (I was actually pretty ill last night) but I kind of look forward to it with all the things to do.
