GH31 - Dilemma with my pregnant wife

[GH31]

Back here again,

I have reread the threads.

I can't believe I am dealing with this. I never guessed when I married W that she was capable of this - perhaps the only thing that kept a lid on it was my own verbal abuse, put-downs etc toward her. I went to the airport to hear her "explanation" I guess. She said "You never replied to my emails GH31. I wasn't sure if you would come." I shouldn't have gone - you're right. Why, why, why did I come back for more?

I really am in a state of denial about how sick this situation is - I must be. Else it would hurt so much more than it does.

I found out about OM's background last week. When he was very young his father left the family for an OW with a 5 year old daughter. Then as the daughter grew up his father took a shining to her, then eventually he left the OW for OW's own daughter.

Please help me here guys. I really need all the help I can get right now.