GH,

Re read this thread.

You must be somehow brainwashed to even contemplate being with this woman. She wants to abort you baby!!!! and OM willl take her back after all this?

They are deranged. Either that or OM is telling her this and once she acts on it will tell her exctly where to stick herself - I would if I were him. Maybe time to contact him again?

Please remove yourself from this madness.

BTW - why DID you meet her and why are YOU the one moving out?

You know you have to end this, How could you ever believe anything this woman ever tells you....and even if you did stay with her? After what she has just said and done she knows that if you do stay with her you are her doormat for life. She will do this to you over and over again.

IMO meeting her at the airport was a huge mistake. Pregnant or not she can carry her own bl**dy bags - esp if she values this baby enough she is contemplaring aborting it....which by now will mean going through a full labour - nice. Your W sounds like one real nasty piece of work. I am so sorry for you GH. You have faced your faults whereas she just seems to think she is justified in her actions. The two things will never add up to a happy, loving relationship....and just think what sort of a toxic life that would be.

It is obvious 'your' baby was not made from love but from your W's lustful need to try and keep you on side whilst she continued to play eany, meany, miney, mow.....and guess what.....you lost. What a b!tch....esp when there is another life at stake.

If I read right earlier, your W has already had a miscarriage. If she is willing to lose another baby after going through that it just shows how uncaring she is.....or are all these threats to abort just that? Just ways to twist the knife a bit more? Either way, she is just down right sick.

I am saddened you even went to meet her GH.

((((HUGS))))

You have my greatest sympathy. You must have one of the most heard hearted , deranged, narcissistic, S's on this board. You need to amputate her like a limb with ganggreen (sp?).


Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength