GH31 - Dilemma with my pregnant wife

[GH31]

Sara & Carlos,

Thanks for your replies.

I met W at the airport this morning (got into town by metropolitan rail). She spent a few days with OM and with another friend of hers. She admitted to having sex with OM whilst being pregnant with my child. her wedding ring was not on for the first time in about 6 months.

I calmly nodded and that was it. She said "It's probably in your best interests to leave as I could not forgive that. I don't want to see you continuously getting hurt". It turns out that OM wants W to abort the baby and to go to him. W said she "doesn't want" to do this and addded that "OM doesn't want your baby GH31". W said OM even went out on a date while she was there with someone else and he said to W "it's in your hands".

God, I cannot even believe that I am writing this stuff. I cannot, cannot believe it. When I'm in her company, the thought of being without her is just horrible but when I'm by myself I think of all the horrible stuff she has done.

I have to believe that there is a better life than this. I will move out and have made some arrangements - even if I have to stay in a hotel to start with whilst I look for a new place. It looks like W means to go to this OM, or is looking for an excuse but my gut tells me that she still loves me and wants me in her life. She balked when I suggested I don't be her niece's godfather at her baptism tomorrow.

Anyway, that doesn't matter. It's time to get out.