My Final Post

[1853dave]

Thanks for posting your story! I'm happy you survived the ride, and came out good in the end. I've been learning that DB'ing never ends, does it...?!

I'm still working on my sitch, and have been treading water in Limboland for several months (she filed last Nov - been separated for 7+ months).... We are getting along mostly well, and she has taken no further action towards the D, but she still mentions things on occasion that sound like she's still going down that road. My DB counselor says that her inaction (and other things) are signs of ambivalence.

I'm being as patient as I can...I'm GAL and trying to worry more about me than about her. It's not great, but it seems to work for me.

Again, congrats on busting your divorce!