NO!!! No R talk. As hard as that is, do not do it. She will talk if and when she is ready. If you push the R talk, it will probably backfire on you and push her further away than she already is. Expect it to take far more than 2 weeks for her to come around. Just keep DBing.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...