as I understood one of your posts, you say to expose the A, not to shame the spouse but to stand for the M and hasten the demise of the A...is that not the case? And you corrected me for saying you wanted to "shame" someone...
Sorry I dont' have the time to go re-read the thread now but regardless, I do make a distinction in the wording for a reason.
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016