GETTING UN'STUCK'

[MrBond]

aak,

"Im going to try to let you in on a little secret...I don't think you could have won with your W. I think she has huge issues and you've been dancing around trying to fit a square into a hole. That is IMO."

In this case you're right. It's a shame she doesn't have more friends or an outlet to bounce her feelings off on like this board.

I do get the feeling she's afraid, whether its for herself or for our kids, I don't know, but fear is fear. So I'm jut going to continue being the great guy I am and will see if I'll be willing to take her back after all this.

"I was really rude and crass in one of my other posts to you...I wanted to apologize but didn't get to it. You didn't call it out."

Don't worry about the comments. I've given my share of 2x4s. It's only fair that I get what's coming to me when it warrants.

In terms of the co-dependency, I think it's a natural thing that all couples fall for after marriage. I've read about it in a ton of other R books.

I've got a busy weekend coming up so I doubt if I'll be posting. However if I get a shout out, I may reply.

Thanks again for the whacks!