GETTING UN'STUCK'

[MrBond]

gucci,

It doesn't have to be through emotional detachment. This is what is tripping you up....

DISCIPLINE. It comes through discipline..
Discipline yourself DESPITE your emotions. As a man, this should be something that you can logically understand... Keep your emotions out of it. Discipline yourself to do and say and act detached. Forget out the emotional detachment "before" you get confident, let go and whatever else you say you will have after detachment. Just do it as a discipline."

Just so I understand, is this like faking it? Even though the emotions are there, push them down and "act" emotionally detached?

This is something that I have been working on and am still working on. The questions, panic, anxiety, etc. that I post here I don't show her. She might pick up the vibes and that's what I'm working on getting rid of.

These posts are where I unload alot of the emotional stuff.