All the while not realizing that they simply won't make up their mind. They view people that are decisive as "black and white or stubborn and such......... People that are black and white view "gray" as "lazy or laid back or undecisive and it drives the black and white crazy as the relationship develops...
I'm chewing on this...good stuff.
I would guess that you've got to see the gray sometimes and the b/w others.
But sure makes my marriage make sense. When H was gray, I was B/W, when H was B/W, I was gray...hmmmm...