Newbie (again)

[dday101798]

lol, that's why OM is her chauffer, her lisence was taken away finally. When she wrecks, she wrecks good, cars on the hood, pushed up utility poles, or in the final case, a tri-fecta.

and lol X2, no she is not a professional, by far, professional b/s'r maybe, that's what makes it scarey that she is the primary income. What OM does with his life, is not my concern or problem so long as my kids are not affected.

Actually, the court order wording on itineraries like everything else was my doing. As XW had indicated plans to move more than some 90 miles away from me once the D was final, I made certain this was in there, that way since it will take me 2 hours to get there, I will (or should) know where they are and what they were doing in the event of an emergency. All of the paperwork was written up by my attorney and little does she realize, 90% of the stuff she could screw up and the kids will be right back in my custody automatically, I only awarded her residential custody as it seemed they were adapting to the situation and it would keep them in very good schools. I may have forfeited, but I'm not stupid.

AOS? I think I've heard that one before but forgot what it means. I have rejected her requests for car repairs and other maintanence that OM's pea size brain seems incompetent to handle. But, when it comes to something like giving a ride somewhere, I have no qualms with that. It's actually brownie points in pocket as I've seen her and OM in public, especially shopping and he does not have the common courtesy to get out of the car and help her load the groceries. Not that I'm saying I'd be her servent or anything, but simply it's something I had always done and could not change. EDIT-as one of my favorite t-shirts reads in her 'honor' :"let me drop everything and work on your problem."