Hang in there. I made H a card from K. That's it. But, I also made one for his Dad. So, he isn't singled out and it's not from ME. I get tired of him thinking that everything I do is because I want to talk to him or see him. I haven't wanted that in months, actually, I would rather have the opposite.
Be careful about telling MIL anything. I refuse to talk to my MIL about H anymore. It is better for us.
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him