Quote:
"I have found a person who is so good to me" We get along so good. He or she treats me so well and life is wonderful.....


Eye-roll.

And they only end up NOT divorced from that person if they do some real work. Come on, my relative is a D lawyer, says he sees that people just change bodies.

Sure, you get the awesome first few years (you had those with the first spouse too)...

There is nothing wrong with making those changes while in the M and seeing what happens...but you have to do the work!!!