Leaving and getting all fancied up, getting attention from the ladies, being super busy (my H) does NOT build real self-esteem. Guarantee, doesn't matter how many success stories you show me.
Sounds just like what it is..PHYSCHOLOGICAL BABBLE...
To be honest, it DOES build self esteem. Is it the only thing to self esteem? No. A part of it? absolutely.
You ever see a thread from a person who left this site and then comes back on months or years later all excited and life is good and oh how everything is so wonderful?...
Yep.. Guess what they usually end up saying...
"I have found a person who is so good to me" We get along so good. He or she treats me so well and life is wonderful.....
Finding another person to love that loves you back DOES help build self esteem. It is a fact. Dressing up nicely and trying to look good DOES build self esteem. Staying active and busy DOES build self esteem.
Hanging in there and tryinng to win back a lover or spouse who is having an affair while you "tolerate" it...
LOWERS SELF ESTEEM.. (for examples, read the threads on this site)
