Although the posts have been different in terms of degrees, it all comes down to one thing. Emotional detachment. Through emotional detachment I'll get:
1) my mojo back 2) my confidence back 3) my value back 4) my life back
It doesn't have to be through emotional detachment. This is what is tripping you up....
DISCIPLINE. It comes through discipline.. Discipline yourself DESPITE your emotions. As a man, this should be something that you can logically understand... Keep your emotions out of it. Discipline yourself to do and say and act detached. Forget out the emotional detachment "before" you get confident, let go and whatever else you say you will have after detachment. Just do it as a discipline.
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And whether or not she wants to be a part of that life, then its her decision.
Nope... Then it will be YOUR DECISION....
Get it?
Awesome! And the discipline is the work on one's self and GAL...on your terms. Thanks for showing up here Gucci. I get so much from everyone's sitches.
BTW- you think the paradigm is the same when the guy leaves?
