So it goes back to me being a friend to her. She already know perfectly well that I want the M however, she also knows that while I would like our M, I don't NEED her. I've already told her as much.
This is the basic problem I have with the "be their best friend" approach (other than the small detail of "It rarely works"):
You can TELLthem, a lot of things. But what you are showingthem by the friendly behavior is that "He seems okay with this. This is going to be fine. HE's going to be fine. This will all work out how I want it to."
We all teach each other on here to "Believe none of what they tell you, and only half of what they do." If we think WASs aren't doing the exact same thing, we're deluding ourselves.
