I keep seeing your posts on MB's thread. You have some pretty good perspective on things and can put thoughts into words perfectly!
Thought I'd come over and check out your sitch.
The first think I noticed is the fact that your H seems to be keeping himself super busy with work (same as my W) under the pretext of needing money. It's nothing but behavior to avoid having to deal with things. Sooner or later he will come to that conclusion. You sound like you are getting to the end of your rope, but I still hope it's not too late.
