Just to clarify my statement about loving more than one person. When you date someone, you think they are THE ONE you love one another, etc. until you break up. Then the next person comes along and you find yourself thinking that person is THE ONE.
So you see it is possible to love more than just one person. None of us have to stay with the person we're with. We make it a choice to.
For what it is worth, I agree. As I so eloquently articulated on another thread-
"the one" is the one who you choose to be "the one" and who chooses to be "the one" back and I think that's the whole unromantic kit and kaboodle.