Be confident with yourself: being confident means DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO WHEN YOU WANT TO DO IT.
Sometimes it does. Sometimes not. Sometimes doing what you want when you want to do it has nothing to do with confidence. Sometimes it is selfishness. I know a lot of people who are viewed as selfish that do what they want to do when they want to do it. It certainly doesn't come across to me as confidence just because they are doing what they want to do when they want to do it.
Sometimes confident people DON'T do what they want to do because they are being thoughtful of what someone else in the relationship wants.(ie, spouse, children, in laws, etc.)
The husband wants to watch football on Sunday, but goes out with his wife and lets her shop for clothes, while he happily stays in the backround......
Confident people do NOT do what they want when they want all the time. Sometimes they DON'T do what they want. The key is that when they do something that they really would prefer not to do, is that they do it with happiness and a willing heart....
