Ok, so she has a house provided for her. She's the primary breadwinner there? She's some sort of professional and he isn't? Or he doesn't work?
Court order to give your exact wherabouts and complete itinerary every time you have them? YIKE! That's going to make it really difficult to distance yourself and cut those emotional ties. It gives her a lot of control over you in a way. Does she have veto power in what you are doing with the kids? If not, then I guess it's not such a big deal that she knows the itinerary as long as she doesn't use that to intrude on your time with them.
Good idea not to offer to help her anymore. AOS will keep you tied together and keep her looking to you for other help as well. Again.....she has to face the new reality just like you do.
She wiped out 3 cars and this is after other accidents? How does she manage to still have a license? Remind me to never be on a road anywhere near her!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
