A truly confident, secure man would give this type of attitude:
I am perfectly fine the way I am. I want someone who WANTS to be with me. [quote]
I think this makes sense, and is true...once one is truly confident and secure, and 'is' perfectly fine they way he is.
A truly confident secure man would just want what he wants, not because that other person wants him back - that sounds needy.
Think about it, "I want someone who wants me", that sounds like you need something.
Why do you need it? The things that I want are the things that I want, not the things that I need. It's the difference between having a preference and a necessity and identifying what is what. If I prefer to have something, I'm not attached to it, it would be nice to have but it's not a deal breaker. Needing something and not getting it is a deal breaker, that's when rejection hurts.
Stop being needy, we don't need anything more really than food, water & air. Everything else is a preference and when you change the way you look at things, things start to look differently.
