Greek,

Thanks for the insight. I think we have been moving positively as a whole. I do get feelings of her coming closer, then drawing away, so that's what confuses the heck out of me. But I'm trying to cut down on the mind reading, so we'll see how it goes.

Right now I think she sees me as a burden (as aliveandkicking has pointed out) in the past and I'm trying to break that perception.

Being lumped in with the kids is a tough thing to break, but I think it's a trap that all couples with children fall for. We forget to see each other as individuals and become just mother/father. Time to shake things up to be seen as husband/wife, lover/lover again. But one step at at a time.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER