Jimbo, that was funny and true. As I have said before, if I wasnt in the middle of the insanity of MLC, I would find it all fasinating - in a stick a needle in your eye kind of way.
I have not had any of those kinds of comments. More the I dont want to be married anymore, I need a new life, it's my time now kind of comments.
No matter how you slice it, it is all still craaazzzyyyy!
Ain't no lie, B.....craaazzzyyyy!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I got the same sorts of comments as you did- "I don't know what I want, but I don't want THIS.", "I'm ready to move on with my life.", "This is not about you, it's about me.", etc, etc, etc.
My W actually said to me, "I need to investigate this other relationship! I know what you have to offer!"
If I had NO idea what I was up against and didn't know it was the MLC talking, I could have taken that remark...um....less well than I did.
PATIENCE AND FORTITUDE CONQUER ALL THINGS. -Ralph Waldo Emerson
DBing and MLC take their toll....Please provide exact CHANGE. -Jimbo