Fire's burning out...just smoldering

[blindsided1]

I have. I have. I have always made it very aware that my in-laws as well as my H were always welcome in K's life...all aspect of it. They are choosing not to be there. It is time for me to stop trying to control the way things turn out with regard to their relationships with K. They will continue to be invited to thing for her and I will continue to send her pic to MIL on Monday. But, other than that....they need to come to me if they want something. And, as for H, I'm done..I have tried to take the higher road through all of this. Now I just want to be off the road for a while. I'm not giving him anymore of my kindness. He doesn't deserve it and it serves no purpose. It doesn't even make me happy to be nice to him anymore. It used to make me feel like a good person. Well, guess what? I AM a good person and I don't need his validation to prove that. He wouldn't know a good person if they bit him in the a$$.

Maybe someday, H will pull his head out of OW's butt and we might actually be able to have a decent mother/father relationship. But, I'm not counting on it. It's hard to believe he will get better with age. I just see him getting worse.