robx,

Thanks for the suggestion. I'll have to try it after we get much, much closer. THAT will definitely be seen as pressure. Just know from experience. She already gives me an uncomfortable look when I ask how her day was.

I don't think she'll let me touch her feet.

In terms of the massage stuff. Just in general she has a very low pain threshhold. If I gently massage her neck or temples, she's already complaining how sore it is.

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Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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