I just read your post, through the light of the am.
Your last paragraph is a goal of mine. Your description of your H is identical to mine. I see your points, and pray for the direction you have given, and your ability to "get there."
Thanks for sharing such personal "stuff." I appreciate it.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.