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I wonder what you fine folks would learn if you snooped on your WAS's ipod to see what they are listening to!

Coach and I talked about this months ago - songs that got us through. I made him guess mine. He guessed "Fix You" by Coldplay. Nope.

It was "Good" by Alanis Morrissette (she's not angry ALL of the time).

SP - I would LOVE to know what Mrs. SP is healing to. If I had to guess, I think she'd dig "Good."


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Anyone here remember the Jon Pousette-Dart Band from the mid-70s? I didn't think they were all that obscure, must have been to at least a half dozen of their concerts back in Beantown and thereabouts, but I can't find lyrics to their songs anywhere on the net...

They had a few quasi-hits: Amnesia and May You Dance... Some of their stuff, which I haven't listened to in years and years just randomly pops into my head... You can still download the tunes, but with titles like Cheated ("Cheated, mistreated, lost my mind, lost my touch... I get hopeful, get let down, you're sure exciting to have around. I want to stand on solid ground, I want something that will stick around...", Never Enough (title speaks for itself, but has the line "What gets me most is that I see, you talk to you and not to me, convince yourself, it's truth you speak..."), Gotta Get Far Away From You ("Been knocked around for almost a year, I'm gone when you want, and when you want me I am here. You've kicked me around til I can't sit down, can't take it no more, so it's 'Goodbye, Miss You'. Gonna get right out, start a new, gotta get far away from you." Even Amnesia has some good stuff... "Well you hit me on the head with your beer bottle, something in my chemistry has changed, and though I've already decided to forgive you, my friends all think I'm permanently deranged... I hope that it's only amnesia, believe me I'm sick but not insane."

I'm kinda guessing someone in the band was going through what we are as a lot of the songs evoke the themes we read about on these boards...

May You Dance says "May you dance, when all your world falls down, when it's all upside down, may you turn it around and dance."

There are also great tunes about children, my favorite is called Yaicha ("Yaicha, I love to watch you smile, you are a candle beneath the falling rain, you are the child in which the love still remains"), but the one that I always aspired to when I was a young man thinking about the type of father I wanted to be is the one that I want to rededicate myself to. It's called, I think, The Man and it goes like this:

I've watched the man grow older through the years,
I've seen the lines in his face grow deeper.

Listened to his silence and
Heard wisdom,
Felt his love checkmate hate...


Worth downloading some of these if you remember that band at all... The messages are timeless...

For the California crowd, I see they have some gigs there in July...


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How about for mojo'ing, Beyonce's "If ya like it than you shoulda put a ring on it", or kept a ring on it, more appropriately.


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You mentioned Nina Simone -

Feeling Good

Birds flying high
You know how I feel
Sun in the sky
You know how I feel
Reeds driftin' on by
You know how I feel
It's a new dawn
It's a new day
It's a new life
For me
And I'm feeling good

Fish in the sea
You know how I feel
River running free
You know how I feel
Blossom in the tree
You know how I feel
It's a new dawn
It's a new day
It's a new life
For me
And I'm feeling good

Dragonfly out in the sun you know what I mean, don't you know
Butterflies all havin' fun you know what I mean
Sleep in peace when the day is done, that's what I mean
And this old world is a new world
And a bold world
For me
Fooor me

Stars when you shine
You know how I feel
Scent of the pine
You know how I feel
Yeah freedom is mine
And I know how I feel
It's a new dawn
It's a new day
It's a new life
hu
It's a new dawn
It's a new day
It's a new life

It's a new dawn
It's a new day
It's a new life
It's a new life
For me

And I'm feeling good

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Originally Posted By: traveldane
How about for mojo'ing, Beyonce's "If ya like it than you shoulda put a ring on it", or kept a ring on it, more appropriately.


That one is on my playlist!

Along with "I Know You Want Me (Calle Ocho)" (Pitbull) That one makes me dance wherever I am. I think I'm going to jump on iTunes and download that one right now...


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And for snarky detachment...

Anya Marina's "All the same to me".

http://link.brightcove.com/services/player/bcpid13847362001?bctid=25074123001


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Originally Posted By: orangedog
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uh..your handle already is a song title? Is it for that reason?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EK08XU4VaLQ



Dang, just checked out those lyrics and they're pretty spot on. I just picked it because I wanted something empowering, rather than "gonnadieifhdoesntcomeback"... grin



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Quote:
You mentioned Nina Simone -

Feeling Good


Ohhh, does that work for me...



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Originally Posted By: aliveandkicking
Originally Posted By: orangedog
@aliveandkicking

uh..your handle already is a song title? Is it for that reason?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EK08XU4VaLQ



Dang, just checked out those lyrics and they're pretty spot on. I just picked it because I wanted something empowering, rather than "gonnadieifhdoesntcomeback"... grin


LMAO!!!
That is TOO funny!!!

We could do a whole thread of those names:

"Pining4Him"

"Slavish4Her"

"WillHURLifSheDoesn'tComeBak"

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Here is a good one I just heard on the radio - Normally I can't stand country music however here at work that is what I listen to 10 hours a day so here you go...

Keith Urban
You'll Think Of Me

I woke up early this morning around 4am
With the moon shining bright as headlights on the interstate
I pulled the covers over my head and tried to catch some sleep
But thoughts of us kept keeping me awake
Ever since you found yourself in someone else's arms
I've been tryin' my best to get along
But that's OK
There's nothing left to say, but

Take your records, take your freedom
Take your memories I don't need'em
Take your space and take your reasons
But you'll think of me
And take your cat and leave my sweater
'Cause we have nothing left to weather
In fact I'll feel a whole lot better
But you'll think of me, you'll think of me

I went out driving trying to clear my head
I tried to sweep out all the ruins that my emotions left
I guess I'm feeling just a little tired of this
And all the baggage that seems to still exist
It seems the only blessing I have left to my name
Is not knowing what we could have been
What we should have been
So

Take your records, take your freedom
Take your memories I don't need'em
Take your space and take your reasons
But you'll think of me
And take your cat and leave my sweater
'Cause we have nothing left to weather
In fact I'll feel a whole lot better
But you'll think of me

Someday I'm gonna run across your mind
Don't worry, I'll be fine
I'm gonna be alright
While you're sleeping with your pride
Wishing I could hold you tight
I'll be over you
And on with my life

So take your records, take your freedom
Take your memories I don't need'em
And take your cat and leave my sweater
'Cause we have nothing left to weather
In fact I'll feel a whole lot better
But you'll think of me

So take your records, take your freedom
Take your memories I don't need'em
Take your space and all your reasons
But you'll think of me
And take your cat and leave my sweater
'Cause we got nothing left to weather
In fact I'll feel a whole lot better
But you'll think of me, you'll think of me, yeah

And you're gonna think of me
Oh someday baby, someday


May All Who Seek To Take My Life
Be Put To Shame And Confusion;
May All Who Desire My Ruin
Be Turned Back In Disgrace.
~Psalm 40:14~
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