I sent Dan an email on Wed. evening asking him if he was staying here Sun/Mon nights while I am at my work conference. Also asking him/telling him about weekend plans. My sis is coming tomorrow w/her kids, BIL is out of town for work. So we are all getting together with my mom/dad tomorrow afternoon and then grilling out supper for my dad's father's day.
So I told him Sat. was pretty full for us but kids wanted him over for breakfast before church. The rest of Sunday was up to him since it was 'his' day...I leave around 6 for my work conference on Sunday night and come back Tuesday night.
He never responded. Actually weird in that he called me Sun night to say he got there, left an ILY msg on machine Monday, left a How Are You Bobbi? msg on machine Tuesday (we were busy all week! )...then as soon as I communicate w/him he disappears.
Today he texts me "What are you doing". I replied that I was dropping kids at school so I could run errands. He called a bit later. Wanted to know what plan for weekend was (seriously?).....
He said he wanted to meet me at karate w/Nathan after work tonight and go to dinner after (w/kids of course). Then said if I didn't want to go to dinner w/them, I didn't have to, that was up to me...
I passed over that to ask about the rest of the weekend. He said Sat while I am with my family he would do his catch-up stuff. Then he said he had to make some phone calls to figure out what all he would do and we could talk tonight about Sunday. (God, please let one of the calls be to the pastor!)
I think it is a bad sign that actually talking to him bothered me...he is so "Laisse-faire" about everything. I think I used the right term! I mean, he was just like "Oh, what is up tonight? Karate? Want to meet up and then go have dinner? Oh, Saturday, yeah I could go play catch-up while you have the kids, they will want to play with their cousins...yeah, Sunday, let me make some calls and we will go from there..." Sigh...whatever pal!
Oh and I said in the call that other than church he could do whatever w/the kids Sunday since it was Father's Day. He said, "It's just another day, really.." I said well no, to the kids it is fathers day and they want to spend it with you. He just said, "Oh, okay!" and laughed like he didn't see why it mattered. Once church is over I intend to disappear and let him have them whole day with them.
)...then as soon as I communicate w/him he disappears.
