And for snarky detachment...

Anya Marina's "All the same to me".

http://link.brightcove.com/services/player/bcpid13847362001?bctid=25074123001

Me 30
H 33
together:10 years
married:5 years
Separated: 1/23/09
living apart 5 mos and counting
"when you reach the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on"-FDR