Secure, confident men that are successful with women do NOT offer to rub the feet, give backrubs, hope that the woman is "over the OM" etc. etc.... TO WOMEN THAT WANT OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP. (or ones that are their friend)It is weak.
How many of you men have EVER offered to give a foot rub to a friend? You are UNDERESTIMATING women, if you believe she won't see through that nonsense.
You have been at this for what? 2-1/2 year?
What you are doing is not working.
A truly confident man would STOP putting up with a woman behaving like yours is. He would STOP making excuses and STOP trying to "figure" it all out....
A truly confident, secure man would give this type of attitude:
I am perfectly fine the way I am. I want someone who WANTS to be with me. I will not share my wife with another man,either phsyically or emotionally. Love in marriage is EXCLUSIVE. PERIOD.
And then he would do everything in his power to move on and stop any and all pursuit and this nonsense of "friendship" that is nothing more than a smokescreen and another method to win her love. Won't work.
Stop this nonsense and admit that this hasn't and isn't working. Two years is more than enough time. You seem to be doing the same things you are giving Kevin 2x4's for.
Time to move on.... Chasing in any form (inclouding the friendship routine) doesn't work.
What works is truly letting them see and FEEL that you ARE and HAVE moved on.
