I'm also worried that if I allowed my W to crash really hard, she wouldn't bounce.
So you avoid the crash at what cost? Ultimately you don't do her any favor letting yourself be emotionally abused.
I think most of us here forget that we are in the most extreme marital crises here. Most of us are dealing with depression, MLC, affairs etc.
We can't look at this as a pool of normal marriages. We are all hanging off the cliff. My point is that, DB be damned, you got to do what you got to do when you're at this juncture. On the upside, no fear, cuz we know the odds are against R...
