SSW struggling with GAL

[Bagheera]

Adding to what Lucky said:

I would advise you to NOT let him worm the two of you out of counseling. It take *months* (if not years) of work to fix a broken marriage, and a counselor is the best way to keep both of you on track and working the issues. The counseling sessions may be uncomfortable for him, and make him squirm and try to wriggle out of them, but they are *vital* to the process.

-- B.