I'm glad Puppy is here for you, Rich. Please listen to his very realistic view on how much more there is to an EA. I also hope that Coach and Greek work with you, too. They are a husband and wife on this board - a success story - and they are very good at illuminating the unique perspectives of the LBS and WAW. Dburt and so many others are of great help, too.
Don't allow yourself to be blinded by what you wish was the truth. Living in the dark is not going to help you now. Time to face reality, decide what you will and will not tolerate in your marriage, and draw clear boundaries.
You are a fine man and deserve much respect. I am praying for you and your W.
