Prematurely called divorce busted, worse now

[Orich]

Hi Lucky,
You were the first person I thought of when I posted this before.
Her attentions are directed elsewhere. She is involved with a high school friend (man) who is making a Hollywood movie and wants her to work in production. So she is out with him and other people from the production company every Sunday night. I am 99.9% sure there is nothing else between them, just an old friendship. During the week she goes out with old girlfriends from her old job one night, and most Friday nights goes out with her brother, who she is trying to get a girlfriend for (his wife, my wife's close friend, died 2 years ago at 42).
She is on her cellphone texting often, but not obsessively, with the guy from the movie deal, and she updates facebook a lot, mostly just putting up new pics of our boys.
We don't go out anymore, she told me it wouldn't work, so why bother.
I joined a gym, and am trying to do things by myself. Unfortunately, most of my friends are "our" friends, so meeting friends for a beer or something is difficult right now.
Thank you for responding. I am sad to be back here, but glad to hear from you.

Rich