I hate my H

[Done in VA]

I know. Thanks for your support on my thread. It's so helpful to have other people encouraging me through this. I will say that MC is 100% pro marriage. Don't know her motivation in saying to turn to me & say...Maybe she is trying to make him face some realities like FG said.

My only problem with switching MC's is H would probably think I was trying to control the situation again. I know it's an assumption on my part, but I could see him thinking - oh what, this MC hasn't been able to turn me around so now you want to hop to another one to get me to see things YOUR way???