What to do

[GoBison]

Ok so I am back in the house and yeah she was extremely pissed.

1. Pissed that I left the house for her to have to do everything.
2. That I didn't tell her where I was.
3. That I talked to my sister about it.
4. That I am back and now she has to move out if she wants to.

I did tell her that I left because when she mentioned D I was scared and needed time to think. She said that while she mentioned D last week splitting things up that she didn't actually say she wanted one until now. I let her know that if she wanted to file for a D or move out that was her choice but I didn't want that.

She went on and on about how she has told her folks what is happening and they are glad because of the things she told them. Which I know is a lie because her mom texted me asked me if the two of us were out two days ago. She is also telling her friends different things as well as one of them called me to tell me that she was now ready to work on it and W was worried where I had been. Funny she never called me to ask where I was and it really didn't seem when she was yelling and talking of D last night that she wanted to work on it.

So the plan right now is to pretty much go dark. She is leaving for the weekend tomorrow and will be gone for 3 days. She says that she will find an apartment when she gets back. I said that is fine, she can look then or she can stay in the place until we have to sell the house it is up to her.

I think that she is extremely confused on things right now and doesn't even know what she is saying or going on in her head. She knows that I lover her and that I am a good husband she is just comletely nuts right now.

When I got home she had also cut her hair died it a totally different color and bought all new clothes. She went out last night and came back really late. I was in our bed when she got home and all she said was "your sleeping in here now" I didn't reply and she grabbed her pillow and went to the other room.