getting along great then it was over

[texasbobby]

With as short as i can make it , me and wife have been together for 17 yrs since we were 12 and 13. best friends . money was always a huge issuse , but i always woke and did the best i could ,even exceled in the steel industry. well the economy crased in va. so i left for my brothers in houston to find work. she was hoping i would fail /seceed . i did got a great job sold our house , she had her ups and downs about it but did get on board. we got a place together for us and our two kids . she went back home to let the kids finish school. two weeks later she said she wanted a divorce and wasnt happy. the funny thing is i asked her a week prior how we made it this far she said because she loved me and knew i would give my life to make hers better. now she wont talk to me other than texts and is looking for her own place. i know she loves me but said she doesnt, but i cant see her or my kids. what do i do? i know if she would come here she would calm down . WHAT DO I DO?