Originally Posted By: stuck808
Do not do anything to help her. You're just enabling the behavior.

I think you need to re-read DB and DR. You're making alot of the key mistakes that are detailed in there. Especially the trying to talk to your spouse part. Remember, they do not think they have a "problem" and no amount of talking is going to get them to change their mind. It will only re-enforce their thinking. First thing to do is to stop that now.


I'm with you Stuck. It was a moment of weakness, but I am getting stronger.

M: 41
W: 39
S: 11
S: 10
D: 4
1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09
EA began: 2/14/09
EA discovered: 3/1/09
I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself
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